If you had money, how would you live?
(Gets at dreams that you may have censored to be practical. What if you won the lottery?)
If you had 5 years left, what would you do?
(Highlight your priorities)
If you had 24 hours left, what did you miss or regret?
(Is there something you need to say, something you need to take care of?)
The source of these is George Kinder, in his work on life planning. Thanks, George.